Men Go to Church

Guest: Pastor Jarrett Stephens 

Champion Forest Baptist Church

Jarrett’s books:

The Mountains Are Calling: Making the Climb for a Clearer View of God and Ourselves

The Always God: He Hasn’t Changed and You Are Not Forgotten

Why should a man go to church?

First, don’t discount the person and message of Jesus Christ because of something that happened to you or something you’ve seen or heard from those who are followers (real or self-proclaimed) of Jesus.

Second, the church is one of the only places (ecosystem, if you will) that you’ll find humility, authenticity, and people who truly want the best for your life. The church is one of the only places that celebrates “servant-leadership” and not “self-centeredness.”

Third, the church is the epitome of diversity - in today’s world where “diversity” is celebrated and pursued, the church really is the fulfillment of unity through diversity - all walks of life, all ages, all cultures, colors, skills, abilities - all part of the body of Christ!

What should I look for in a church?

First, start with the core components evident in the Book of Acts. Biblical teaching - have to have an authoritative source. The church should point people to the person of Jesus.  The church should be Scripture filled, Jesus centered, Holy Spirit inspired.

Second, look for a Biblical community, a place where your family can get plugged into, etc.

Third, things that give you pause. Jarrett - “blessed are the balanced.” Look out for an imbalance that focuses too much time and energy toward one component to the detriment of others. Try to find a church that’s “balanced.”

Recent study - 90% of men say they have never heard a sermon that related to work. 

Jarrett - men, at some point, we have to learn to be “self-feeders.” You can’t just settle for someone else opening up and teaching from the Word - YOU need to dig in and see what the Word has for you. Train yourself for godliness. Men are passionate about things that are important to them - are you passionate about your spiritual life and growth?

Recent study - if the husband/father of the family goes to church, the family is 90% more likely to attend. Men, your example leads your family spiritually - either for the good or for the bad! Jarrett - as a dad, it’s my responsibility to put my family in a positive place for their growth and development.

Take-away: Find a good church. Don’t sit in the stands of life, get in the game. You get out of something what you put into it.